tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22877324.post751205115257577299..comments2023-05-13T04:50:48.956-05:00Comments on Keep Changing- A Gay Mormon Journey: Cranky-L-http://www.blogger.com/profile/02854867259876731599noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22877324.post-30245815907710505942007-07-15T18:35:00.000-05:002007-07-15T18:35:00.000-05:00My policy is take everything personally whether or...My policy is take everything personally whether or not it's directed at me or I'm responsible. It's clearly how I ended up gay.<BR/><BR/>And, more seriously, it wasn't just the Glatze thing, it's just been my gut feeling from the whole experience that there <I>is</I> a difference in people's approach/charity level. But, like I said, I'm okay with it now.-L-https://www.blogger.com/profile/02854867259876731599noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22877324.post-65826799971227560382007-07-15T18:29:00.000-05:002007-07-15T18:29:00.000-05:00I can't speak for everyone, but I know I don't dis...I can't speak for everyone, but I know <I>I</I> don't discriminate between Establishment blogs and Regular Joe blogs. I am neither friendly nor accommodating for mistakes in either case. I will accept nothing less than perfection!<BR/><BR/><BR/>(And I don't know if you're referring to something else or just the Michael Glatze thing, but if you are referring to the latter, I think you should let Tito fight his own battles and not take criticism of <I>his</I> posts personally. Still, though, I'm sorry for my contribution to your bummedness.)B.G. Christensenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01604354633985676126noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22877324.post-86371486179489664942007-07-15T16:30:00.001-05:002007-07-15T16:30:00.001-05:00Stephalumpagus, most of my readers are long gone. ...Stephalumpagus, most of my readers are long gone. Try having a post a week for a couple months--they evaporate. :-) It reminds me that I blog mainly for my own amusement, not the hoards of fans.<BR/><BR/>Mr. Fob, thanks for that. I appreciate the encouragement. You may be right that it is the establishment in some ways, but people are never friendly toward the establishment (even though it's still made up of people who might be sensitive). I'd just like the same friendliness and accommodation for mistakes that any other blog is given. Probably asking too much. :-) I'm okay with it though.<BR/><BR/>Chednar, have a look at my <A HREF="http://ldslights.org" REL="nofollow">NL</A> post today.<BR/><BR/>Marmoreal and Gimple, you guys are just plain nice and I really appreciate it. Thanks.-L-https://www.blogger.com/profile/02854867259876731599noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22877324.post-40675764249876888832007-07-14T11:49:00.000-05:002007-07-14T11:49:00.000-05:00As you well know, I have problems with rejection a...As you well know, I have problems with rejection also. I feel your pain and I know the loneliness. You once told me that some people have big hearts and need a lot of friends to feel complete and full. I think that is you. You also told me that when someone we thought was our good friend and then rejects those type of people, it hurts real bad. I agree that this is you too. <BR/><BR/>-L-, you always have a friend in me. You are someone I look up to with the greatest respect. You may not know this, but your influence has helped me out a lot. I know these words probably don't help a lot, but I just want to let you know that you are loved by me. If I knew where you lived and were close to you, I would come and give you a great big hug from the "hug master." You're great and don't forget it!Seanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16629678782997797603noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22877324.post-15481590673736107642007-07-14T09:01:00.000-05:002007-07-14T09:01:00.000-05:00hey -L-, we all need an adolescent outlet from tim...hey -L-, we all need an adolescent outlet from time to time. and don't you fret over Northern Lights - it's just a baby yet. heck the word(?) Moho has been around much longer and there are still trickling debates over the supposed meaning and the appropriateness/usefulness or lack thereof of the terms role. and that's just 4 little letters. now we got a whole freakin' site to use and discuss. given societal history, the birth of the site itself is nothing short of a tiny miracle. give it some time to grow and mature and I'm sure NL will become the fine, upstanding citizen of the blogosphere that you hope it to be. chin up, man - high tide will return soon enough.Marlohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04390698740183864975noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22877324.post-35817230150831494872007-07-14T02:42:00.000-05:002007-07-14T02:42:00.000-05:00I've been rather cranky lately, myself -- for a lo...I've been rather cranky lately, myself -- for a lot of the same reasons. My biggest frustration, though, is with the Church (how the leaders aren't creating the establishment needed -- and how they are the only ones who can truly create this establishment).<BR/><BR/>Don't get me wrong; I think the leaders are trying to help with all their sincerity... but, I don't think they quite grasp the concept yet.chednerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14963974112297032614noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22877324.post-73785562152620698712007-07-14T01:33:00.000-05:002007-07-14T01:33:00.000-05:00Sorry you're feeling down. As for Northern Lights,...Sorry you're feeling down. <BR/><BR/>As for Northern Lights, I think it's doing well. It's providing a voice for a group of people that have not traditionally had much of a voice and in this past week it's gotten some more exposure from the general LDS blogging crowd. My family members, for example, have commented that they browsed around a bit after reading FoxyJ's post, and I imagine that many of the people who clicked on over from Times & Seasons did the same. <BR/><BR/>I agree that people are viewing it as the establishment. That's because of a few reasons: it <I>looks</I> official; it <I>does</I> try hard to represent the views of the establishment insofar as the LDS Church is the establishment; and a lot of people <I>want</I> it to be the establishment because they need an establishment who speaks to the issues NL addresses. And when it comes down to it, what is any establishment but "a collection of people talking about stuff... with some rules"? NL is the closest thing to an establishment the faithful MoHo blogging world has; fighting the role won't do any good, so you might as well accept it and run with it.B.G. Christensenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01604354633985676126noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22877324.post-6376162608363484282007-07-14T00:41:00.000-05:002007-07-14T00:41:00.000-05:00Wow your blog really IS going down the tube. I don...Wow your blog really IS going down the tube. I don't think I can read it anymore. <BR/><BR/>Jk. I think it would take a lot more than some adolescent whining for you to lose readers.Stephalumpagushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12586076007803308768noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22877324.post-51707741402744740432007-07-14T00:09:00.000-05:002007-07-14T00:09:00.000-05:00YAY! Adolescent blogging! It's okay, -L-, you're...YAY! Adolescent blogging! It's okay, -L-, you're playing my tune. :)<BR/><BR/>*ehugs*Kengo Biddleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12083962910965544925noreply@blogger.com