tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22877324.post114650207887218775..comments2023-05-13T04:50:48.956-05:00Comments on Keep Changing- A Gay Mormon Journey: Perseverate-L-http://www.blogger.com/profile/02854867259876731599noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22877324.post-1146877076392283592006-05-05T19:57:00.000-05:002006-05-05T19:57:00.000-05:00To quote L quoting me:Failing to nurture those asp...To quote L quoting me:<BR/><BR/><I>Failing to nurture those aspects of yourself that you (or those around you) feel are undesirable will bring...</I><BR/><BR/>It's all from an individuals perspective. I was addressing the common teaching that being gay is undesirable. If you buy into that teaching then that is your perogative. <BR/><BR/>Many people don't realize the power of their minds. Ever heard the phrase, "Nobody is born a bigot." Humans learn from other people what is right and what is wrong. Believing in the rights and wrongs of other people isn't the best path in life. I believe people should make up their own minds, not just swallow what they're spoon fed.Davidhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13477724803152564011noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22877324.post-1146850997018918042006-05-05T12:43:00.000-05:002006-05-05T12:43:00.000-05:00Hey Ardent MormonThanks for your thoughts on Perse...Hey Ardent Mormon<BR/><BR/>Thanks for your thoughts on Perseverating on Christ. I agree with you on it, and I have found that generally my life works better when I do that. Also, thanks for your emails.<BR/><BR/>jakeAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22877324.post-1146782077978982622006-05-04T17:34:00.000-05:002006-05-04T17:34:00.000-05:00Failing to nurture those aspects of yourself that ...<I>Failing to nurture those aspects of yourself that you (or those around you) feel are undesirable will bring... </I><BR/><BR/>I'm supposed to nourish the undesirables? Why the hell have I been pulling weeds instead of fertilizing them? I have no doubt that my current course of actions is resulting in limited (what's the word?) gratification, but that's okay with me.<BR/><BR/>I'll fill you in on the rock star sex sometime. I'll link to my <I>other</I> blog. The one with the soundtrack. The one so frank I have to use a pseudonym for L. :-)<BR/><BR/>One man's weed is another man's flowers. I'm happy for your happiness, David.-L-https://www.blogger.com/profile/02854867259876731599noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22877324.post-1146675957456587222006-05-03T12:05:00.000-05:002006-05-03T12:05:00.000-05:00If life is an attempt to maximize rock star sex wh...<I>If life is an attempt to maximize rock star sex where planets fall from their orbits, my life has been only modestly successful.</I><BR/><BR/>Really? I'd like to hear more about that please. <BR/><BR/>While I agree that there should be balance in everyone's lives I also believe that there should be balance in everyone's lives. : ) Failing to nurture those aspects of yourself that you (or those around you) feel are undesirable will bring only limited.....(happiness is the only word I can think of but it doesn't seem to really fit.) <BR/><BR/>I'm not sure if I am unique in this, or maybe it is a touch of OCD, but I was never able to compartmentalize my sexuality from the rest of my life. I've said many times that hiding parts of myself and believing the negative things people said about being gay affected EVERY aspect of my existence. <BR/><BR/>I believe in living life to its fullest, with balance and growth throughout your whole being and along your whole life path. I have no regrets.Davidhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13477724803152564011noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22877324.post-1146668701464949452006-05-03T10:05:00.000-05:002006-05-03T10:05:00.000-05:00One of the greatest moments for me in my life was ...One of the greatest moments for me in my life was when, after I had come out to my wife and begun the process of building a new life and identity, I could look at my nearly 20 years in the LDS Church and my 10 years in my marriage and not feel any regrets for having lived that life. It has been a very good life. Incomplete, but very good.<BR/><BR/>Change is difficult, but my good life continues.Chrishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05940646193920094814noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22877324.post-1146667101759231032006-05-03T09:38:00.000-05:002006-05-03T09:38:00.000-05:00Good plan. I'll try. :)Good plan. I'll try. :)B.G. Christensenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01604354633985676126noreply@blogger.com